In the book "Naomi &Ely's no kiss list" by David Levithan and Rachel Cohen, Naomi is far to dependent on Ely. Naomi is always depending on Ely to make her happy, and that is how its always been between the two of them. Ely seems to want to branch away in the story , and Naomi seems to make this really hard for Ely. Naomi needs to understand that what was promised when they were younger years ago should not still be held on Ely so heavy still. Ely has changed alot as a person and Naomi not so much.However, Naomi still needs to take in consideration that Ely should have his own choices in what he does. Ely has discovered that he is a different sexuality than he once thought he was. It turns out that Ely is gay meaning he likes boy only and strictly never will be able to no longer do the things he promised Naomi he would do, because he has no interest in women. Naomi needs to change her perspective on this scenario because she is making choices towards Ely that i can see her soon regreting.   


      In the book Ely seems to appears to have taken an interest in Naomi's boyfriend Bruce. Bruce then also soon realizes that he has a sudden liking in Ely as well,and this starts up a whole fight between the three of them. Naomi is very inconsiderate because she does not think about what is best for both of them who she has had very much experience with both, but she chooses to care all about what is best for her i think this is very unjust and cruel of  her.Naomi needs to understand that not everything is about her and Ely cannot put forward everything he promised years back. Ely needs to focus on himself for once. Ely needs to discover the paths of his sexuality. 



       In the book Naomi and Ely's no kiss list, they both  made a no kiss list years ago when they were very young. They both promised each other marriage.. They also had both promise each other a life with one another forever, but since Ely has figured out that he is gay Naomi needs to understand that This is impossible to follow through for him. Since Eli is figured out that he's gay and is gone with Naomi's boyfriend Bruce Naomi needs to understand that he's trying to break free and be himself for once and not be so dependent on her.Since Eli is figured out that he's gay and is gone with Naomi's boyfriend Bruce. Naomi needs to understand that he's trying to break free and be himself for once and not be so dependent on her.Even though things didn't go the way She wanted, she should still be happy for Ely, and if she really loved him she should let him do. Naomi to be understanding that it is a lot of courage to come out of the closet and she's just support her for her friend at whatever cost it takes, and even if she doesn't enjoy doing it



         To conclude, Naomi any lim to conclude Naomi and Ely had a lot of promises once spoken to one another when they were younger, but this doesn't mean that they should hold these things against one another. What was said back then shouldn't matter now. Now yo had a lot of promises once spoken to one another when they were younger, but this doesn't mean that they should hold these things against one another. What was said back then shouldn't matter now.  Naomi needs to be excepted and Ely needs to leave her alone.Naomi always had her heart set on Ely, so he needs to understand how tough things are going for her. However, Naomi needs to be exceptive in the fact that Ely needs to live his own life for once. Ely has every right in wanting to.  This book shows that attachment can be a real big issue, but you need to learn to be independent. Because independence is the only way to get through tough times when you feel everyone is against you.